Thursday, December 18, 2008

Interview with a Sex Goddess!!

I decided to interview Mary Brown, a Goddess with Athena's home novelties...She is also one of my sisters! This is educational folks, not just about sex sex sex...

Introduce yourself, please:

Let me tell you a little about me......

I have been married for about 7 yrs, I have 3 beautiful daughters, age 19 (step daughter), and twins, age 16. I have one dog, 3 cats, one ferret, one snake.

Growing up in the mid 70s to mid 80s, Sex was supposed to be for after marriage. Unfortunately, I was raped at age 17 while visiting a friend at a local college. At that point, sex became negative for me. I learned to close myself off and engaged in meaningless relationships, and not enjoy sex! Eventually, through lots of therapy, I emerged with a healthier sense of well being and a healthier outlook on sex. And now I research sex and I attend workshops regularly on sex education. I also really enjoy SEX and I want everyone (over 18!) to enjoy it themselves, with or without a partner!

1. Sex is fun. Is it good for me?

Yes, there are many healthy benefits of having sex. Hormones released during sex can help your mood, your skin and your general well being.


2. You are an Athena's Goddess. What do you do? Do you have a website?

I have been with Athenas for 4 yrs now. I love the fact that I have an official degree that names me as a "Goddess". That way if my husband gives me a hard time, I just pull it out and say:"I'm a Goddess, you are a mere mortal. Be gone with you!" My website is www.athenashn.com/701

I introduce many different products that Athenas carries during a live presentation in someone's home, or wherever. I've done parties in a bagel shop, at a camp ground and in a mansion.

One of the reason I decided to become a Goddess, was because I could also be a sex educator. Sex always interested me. People's reactions to it have varied based on culture, generation, religion. We are taught in school to use proper protection, guard against pregnancy, pretty much the message sent across is negative. Woman have been told throughout history that sex is dirty or wrong. I am trying to change that misconception, one party at a time! To let woman know, it is ok to touch yourself. I present all products tastefully and give suggestions on how to have a better sex life, with your partner or with yourself. Orgasms are good for you!


3. Do you just have parties for slutty 20-somethings with perky boobs? What kind of customers do you have?

I have many different customers! As long as they are over 18. My guest have been male, female, bi, lesbian, gay, heterosexual. The ages range from 18-72. The norm at my party is between 25-35, women.


4. Do you just sell dildos and sex toys? What if I invite my mother in law to a party? Is it all just sex sex sex that you talk about?

I sell relationship enhancement products. We have a wide range...and yes something even for your mother in law. We have very high quality spa products, nice fun romantic props, such as scented rose petals along with different items that buzz. We explain the different orgasms a woman or man can have and how to achieve them, using our products. We offer suggestions to add the spark back into a relationship that might be lacking it. Having the party with your friends and family opens up another means of communication and women feel more comfortable asking questions that they've always wondered about....and they also realize that they are "normal" based on experiences others might share.

5. Is sex MORE than just dicks and pussies and orgasms? Whatever do you mean?

Of course! We have many different erogenous zones on our body! Just gazing into your lovers eyes can cause chemicals reactions....our skin will flush...our heart beat quicken...even if you do not have an orgasm every time, sharing the passion with another person still can be rewarding. It is another bond of closeness.


6. Let's discuss sex toys. What kinds are there? Are they just for my pleasure, or do you have ones for my husband? What about things we can use together?

There are bullets, dildos, vibrators, sleeves, s and m, positioning....porn, the list goes on and on!
I have many different items for women, and quite a few for men and more for couples to share! We have the masturbation sleeves for men, however, they can definitely use a lot of our toys in various ways. Men like buzzing too! Have a party and I can explain how! The couples toys would be the penis rings, the positioning items and some of the romance enhancement items, such as games or the rose petals....massage candles are great too for couples!


7. What other things do you sell that could make my sex life as a married woman with children as exciting as it was when I was young and daring?

It is hard for woman when they have children to set time aside for sex. Often we are so tired, that we put sex on the back burner. Sex is too important to leave out of your life. Allow yourself to take time out for either self play or share with your husband when YOU want it...the idea here is to communicate that you do want sex, but at this point, it needs to be more on your schedule than his, especially if you are running around, chasing kids all day. Try to also plan a date out with your partner at least 2 times a month. Try little silly things, such as wearing no undies to dinner and letting him know halfway through the meal. Or pull over somewhere and JUST MAKE OUT....this is especially hot...and brings you back to your younger years..role play, experiment with toys and light s&m...sex is a very important part of a relationship and once it becomes negative for one partner, it does impact the entire relationship.


8. How should I clean my sex toys? If I get a yeast infection, do I have to burn them?

You should be cleaning your toys after every single "event" I recommend mighty tidy toy cleaner which is anti bacterial, and anti fungal. Some people say soap and water, the only issue with that is that the soap can wear down the quality of a toy and it does not take care of the fungus.....if you have a yeast infection, clean your toy with mighty tidy and you can use it again.


9. My husband says thank you again for the "Good Head." Will you explain what he means before people think you are blowing him?

hahahha, "Good Head" is wonderful way to help your male partner achieve a tingly, quick orgasm. I think its funny that people think that anyway. let them think you're a freak. who cares?? hahahha

I will explain here, it is something that can go on him and also in my mouth, and we use the cinnamon flavor...it makes him taste like candy to me, and he just loves it, as I'm sure most men would!

10. My doctor says it is safe for me to have sex all through my pregnancy. Can I use sex toys too?

Of course! Just keep them clean and no double dipping! Pick a hole and stay with it.
Orgasms are good for strengthening the PC muscle, which is used during delivery!


Thank you, Mary!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Absolute favorite line, bar none:

"I'm a Goddess, you are a mere mortal. Be gone with you!"